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Hardcoverpages. Trivia About The Passion Parad Darya Maslova rated it liked it Jun 21, Austin Lewis rated it liked it Sep 06, Lists with This Book. Empathize with Yourself Yellow highlight Page: Such an imbalance might leave the relationship An insightful book into the dynamics of relationships. Nevil rated it liked it Dec 20, Thanks for telling us about the problem. Goodreads helps you keep track of books you want to read.

Topics like practicality, ambivalence, and unbalanced control are covered. She would ask, in a nonblaming manner, if he too valued closeness.

In doing so, he takes a positive view of “next time” and aims to provide fresh hope, new insight and the practical tools for building an equal love that lasts. Want to Read saving…. It should be valued as the great motivator of change. Interestingly, this is the same recovery time that surgeons tell their patients to expect. If this book is right, I now have the solution to the problem that has wrecked every relationship I’ve ever had.

And if you happen to be feeling very loving, by all means express that love. This scripture should be read again and again until the inner workings of these dynamics set in like the alphabet.


The Passion Paradox : When One Person Loves More Than the Other

Patrick rated it liked it May 04, In the context of marriage, and especially when there are children, I recommend trying these strategies for a year or even two. Want to Read Currently Reading Read. The key deis to frame them as symptoms of problem patterns. May 15, bee are eye eh n rated it it was amazing. The author makes the argument that an enduring passion arises most easily and naturally between two well matched individuals. The difficulties take the form of increasing desire and paradoox in the “one-down” lover and dissatisfaction, often mingled with guilt and withdrawal, in the “one-up”.

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Mass Market Paperbackpages. Solila rated it liked it Jan 14, Equalizing strategies for both one-ups and downs are given, for any couple to have plenty of information on how to find a more balanced and healthy relationship, or know when to turn your attention elsewhere. Reading this book is like being able to look down on your relationships past, present, potential in the third person and address them rationally.

Jose rated it liked it Feb 01, Published December 1st by Bantam first published For the same reasons, that is why this book is valuable. Please, read this, learn to catch that moment and, even better, not even let it ever happen in your relationship.

In doing so, he takes a positive view of “next time” and aims to provide fresh hope, new insight and the practical tools for building an equal love that lasts. So let me know if you want some private time, okay? Sometimes that may indeed mean reading a book around your partner, or doing work. If you feel very pessimistic about your relationship, it will also take an act of will. Al rated it liked it Nov 22, Bethany rated it liked it Feb 27, Purchased after reading the Kindle sample because I thought there would be a lot more detail on how to stabilize situations that can change dynamics in previously balanced relationships i.


As your anger starts to build, make what Bay Area therapist and author Dan Wile calls an Overview Statement about your hurtful impulses. Her goal will be to gain what I call Healthy Distance.

The Passion Paradox: Patterns of Love and Power in Intimate Relationships by Dean C. Delis

Ce livre nous en apprend beaucoup sur soi et sur les dynamiques d’un couple. Irina11 rated xean liked it Mar 02, Elena Svistunova rated it it was amazing Oct 17, May 07, Alina Seniuta rated it really liked it.

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